Lindsey Gardens - Memorial Day

For the past few years on Memorial Day, we have taken the kids to the SLC cemetary to visit Grandpa and Grandma Lindsey's grave. We usually buy a pot of mums at the Smith's on 6th and E and then do a drive by on G&G's old house on 9th Avenue. A couple of times we have knocked on the door to see if the people who now own it would let us in to see it again. Nobody has ever answered our knock. When we get to the grave site on the corner of Cypress and Cedar, we put the flowers on the grave and look around for other people we are related to. The kids also like to go see the military graves just to the south of G & G's grave site. After visiting the cemetary, we go to Lindsey gardens and have a picnic. We went ice blocking once. Lauren was a natural at it. She must take after her Great Grandpa Lindsey. The hills at the park are in kind of rough shape. They are getting better after some neglect, but are still pretty rough for ice blocking. This year after eating lunch, Mark and I played frisbie and the little boys played on the playground equipment. Lauren had filled up close to 70 water balloons. We hauled them to the top of the hill (by the uppermost baseball diamond) and threw them down the hill. It is amazing how fast you can burn through 70 water balloons. It was really fun. That may become a new tradition for us.

Here are some pictures of our trip this year.

G & G's house on 9th Avenue. Front yard is different, but still looks the same.

G & G's gravesite. Someone else had been there before us and left the red flowers. Steve and Donna said they had been, so maybe it was them.

Great Grandpa and Grandma Lindsey's gravesite

Lindsey Garden sign

Our picnic just off the playground and above the lower baseball diamond.

Looking toward the upper baseball diamond from the playground (another Joseph Lindsey is in the picture)

While we were on the way up, Marsha asked what some of my memories of Grandpa and Grandma were. Here are a few I came up with (it's hard to stop once you get started.)

• I remember grandpa explaining in great detail how he made the dining room chairs in his woodshop class in high school.
• I remember sleeping on the sun porch and looking out over the city at night.
• I remember grandpa pointing out that you can see Mt. Nebo from their house if the air is clear.
• I remember grandma filling in pauses in the conversation with a strategically timed "well well" or "mmm hmm"
• I remember grandpa visiting us in SJ and looking in a yogurt cup that I had just finished and telling me that there were at least two spoonfuls of yogurt left. He then proceeded to scrape two spoonfuls of wax off the container and feed them to me.
• I remember playing hide and seek in the basement.
• I remember trying to break in to grandpa and grandma's house when we got back and the adults were gone and the door was locked. Grandpa found every place we had tried to get in and made comments about it. We never fessed up to it being us, but I'm sure he knew.
• I remember Stef asking grandma if she had a little plastic thing that holds bread bags closed not expecting her to have one, but she produced about 500 of them that she had been saving "just in case."
• I remember the old powder blue Ford that seemed to run forever.
• I remember G&G bringing me a box of Hostess cupcakes that they had kept in the trunk of the above mentioned Ford and they smelled and tasted of gasoline (Camille may remember that as well.)
• I remember the crocheted duck that pooped jelly beans. (Does anybody know what happened to that?)
• I remember the ancient bottle of mayonaise that was in G&G's fridge.
• I remember being right next to grandpa and having to yell to get him to hear me, but grandma could be in the kitchen and speak in conversational tones and grandpa could hear every word.
• I remember G&G telling us stories about Grandpa Schoenfeld with a hand on the door know on each side of the door and saying, "This guy in here won't let me out."
• I remember grandpa forgetting my name (not sure he ever knew it) but always knowing who Marsha was.
• I remember G&G taking me to the MTC when I left on my mission and how nice it was to have them there.
• I remember grandpa's huge collection of stereo-scope pictures.
• I remember grandpa missing grandma terribly after she died.
• I remember grandpa loving to show us his power tools and trains in the basement when we would visit.
• Most of all I remember what wonderful people they were.
  

Like I said, once you get started, it is hard to stop. I would be interested in hearing some of your favorite memories of G&G as well.

This and That

We have had a lot going on lately. I've been meaning to blog about a lot of it, but haven't gotten around to it. This blog will try to cover it. It will mostly be pictures of what we have been up to lately

The Tophams came to visit us in March. We had a great time playing with them. The kids had a blast. Lauren was a little worried about so many boys coming to visit, but she had the best time of all. We ate a lot and had fun visiting with them.

Brenna and Joseph at dinner at the small table.

We went to Temple Square and to the Church History Museum with them on one of the days. It was freezing but fun.

Mom and Dad Lindsey came to visit from April 1st through April 8th. They got to go to a piano recital for Mark. We went to the BYU art museum one of the days. There is a Walter Wick exhibit there right now. He is the guy who took all of the pictures for the I Spy books. We watched General Conference. We also went geocaching with grandpa. We were excited to have them here. It had been a while since we saw them.

It must be conference time. Marsha and Mom sleeping.

A common sight at our house

Joseph and Ryan in front of the BYU Art Museum

Lunch with G&G at BYU. There were tons of students around that day. Marsha asked the boys who all of the people were. Ryan said, "I think they are my cousins."

Geocaching with Grandpa and Grandma. We got some serious treasures

Joseph had a birthday on April 8th. He is now three years old. Can you believe our tiny baby is three?

Joseph with a bowling pin cake...

a Snidely Whiplash moustache...

and birthday pancakes.

Two days after Joseph turned three, our little Lauren turned 11. We told her that on her "big" birthdays (8, 10, 12, etc.) she could have a bigger party with more friends, etc. Since this was an off year, it was supposed to be a smaller party. She still managed to invite six friends over. She had the party planned down to the minute. The basement got a little thrashed, but a great time was had by all.

Lauren with a birthday muffin

Blowing out the candles

We had spring break last week. I was off for the week and we had fun. Our spring break started with Easter. We had a fun, freezing easter egg hunt.

Joseph was searching for eggs by putting his hand up and shading his eyes.

Monday we went back to Temple Square. It was much warmer than when we went with the Tophams. Popcorn was popping on all of the trees. The flowers were out in force. It was a great day. We also went to Lindsey Gardens for a picnic and to the capital building. The battery on our camera died at Temple Square, so we didn't get pictures of the other places.

On Thursday (April 16) we woke up to eight inches of snow. We went to Deardens for the day and had a fun time visiting with them.

By Saturday the temperature was back up. We went to This is the Place Monument. I hadn't been there in years - probably since the famous Brigham Young smoking picture.

Joseph and Ryan petting a goat that had gotten loose

Joseph and the monument

The kids looking at the monument

All About Strings

Mark has many and varied hobbies. We were talking the other day about how many of them were based on or dealt with strings. Here are a few:

1. Mark has been playing summer tennis through Lehi City for several years. He really has enjoyed it and has gotten pretty good. He is all about the form. He loves to see how much topspin or backspin he can put on the ball. He loves to serve with the proper form as well. He refuses to dink second serves over even if they have a higher likelyhood of going in. Last week were tryouts for the highschool team. Even though he is still in Junior High he qualifies as a highschooler since he is in 9th grade. Mark wasn't sure he wanted to try out because he has a lot going on already. He decided to do it though and ended up making the team. A few months ago he broke the strings on Marsha's racquet. During tryouts he broke the strings on his racquet one day and then on my racquet the next. His last day of tryouts he had to use an older racquet of his that had a broken handle, but the strings were still in tact. Luckily we know someone close by who restrings racquets. We are proud of Mark for making the team and hope has a good experience this year.

2. Mark has been playing the piano since he was eight years old. He loves it. It has been a great emotional outlet for him. He doesn't express much emotion verbally, but the emotion really comes out in his playing. One of the funniest indications of this was a few years ago when we told him he had to do something that he didn't want to do. He disappeared into the piano room and started playing the funeral march. Marsha and I just had to laugh. He has gotten really good and has progressed extremely rapidly lately. We went to a recital where he played a Nocturne by Chopin. We had heard him practicing it, but never heard the whole thing performed. It was absolutely beautiful. Several people commented on how much emotion they felt from the piece. Mark's piano teacher wants him to start playing some concertos. They require a lot better action from the keys than our piano has. We are in the process of upgrading our piano. We found a nice used grand piano that we should own this week. Mark and Marsha have been having a good time trying out all types of pianos. We will keep the piano from Grandpa and Grandma Lindsey's house for the time being. If anyone is interested in it, however, we would be willing to let you have it (if we can figure out how to get it to you.) Note: Since I wrote this, we actually purchased a grand piano. Here is a picture of Mark playing it.

3. When mark was in sixth grade he had to decide if he wanted to play an instrument in the school orchestra, sing in the choir or be in drama. Not a hard decision for him to make and he decided that he wanted to play the violin. We were able to borrow a violin from the Ogborns. He started learning how to play through school. He also wanted to take private lessons. This year he has been playing in the Junior High advanced orchestra. He made first chair right at the beginning of the year. He says he doesn't like it because he is a section leader and has to tell people what to do. He also said that he would only be first chair for a month and then they would rotate. Every time tryouts for first chair come up, he retains the chair. He tried out for Chamber Orchestra at the high school for next year and made it. When his friends come over, they don't just come to hang out. They actually break into a string ensemble. The picture is of Mark and his friends Davis (also on the violin) and Sam (on the bass.) Mark's violin teacher says that he is progressing quite rapidly on the violin too. She says that he has about outgrown his current violin - not the size, but the quality. After we recover from the piano, I guess a violin is next on the list of things to buy.

4. The first three items above are pretty obvious in their string connection. This one may be a little less so. Another thing Mark likes to do in his spare time is write computer programs. He has been taking programming classes at school. I have also been teaching him C#. He is always bugging me to write some requirements for him to program up. He has written some pretty useful things. He wrote a program that lets me keep track of prayers and talks for sacrament meeting. I can sort on who gave the prayer the greatest amount of time ago so that I don't call on the same people too often. You may wonder what this has to do with strings. There is a string data type that is very common in computer programming.

5. This one has nothing to do with strings, but Mark is also on the Knowledge Bowl team for Junior High. Knowledge Bowl is similar to accademic decathalon where a team of people from one school compete against teams from other schools. They are asked questions worth a certain amount of points. The first person to buzz in gets to answer the question. If they get it right, their team gets the points. If they get it wrong, the other team gets a chance to answer to get the points. The competition takes place on March 14th. Mark has been going to practices for that a couple of times a week. Two other member of the team are Sam and Davis pictured in the ensemble picture. (The competition actually happened yesterday. Mark's team took first place after two come from behind victories on the last question. Pretty exciting.)

6. Mark has also been learning Chinese. He took it for two years at the charter school. He has picked up on it fairly quickly and was one of the better speakers in his class. Some of you may have seen the news segment related to speaking Chinese that he was in last year. He wasn't able to take it this year since they don't offer it at the Junior High School. They do offer it at the High School, however, so he is signed up to take it again next year. He has been anticipating going to Chinese camp at BYU this summer. It is a three week immersion course where they have classroom instruction, activities and cultural experiences to help with language proficiency. The only obstacle we might have is that it might conflict with the family reunion. The dates aren't set yet, but the tentative dates are July 20 through August 12.

7. In his spare time, Mark is working on his Eagle Scout project, attending his YM/Aaronic Priesthood meetings and maintaining good grades.

We love Mark and are glad he is part of our family.

Call Me Frank

Many of you know that I have lipoma (not cancerous even though it sounds like it.) A lipoma is a benign tumor composed of fatty tissue. We refer to them as my fat blobs. I probably have about 20 of them, but three of them were especially visible on my left arm. Most lipomas can be removed in the doctor's office or outpatient surgery center. The doctor injects a local anesthetic around the lipoma, makes an incision in the skin, removes the growth, and closes the incision with stitches. I had one removed on my forearm just above my wrist. I had another removed just below my elbow. On Wednesday of last week I had the third (and largest) one removed from my tricep. It was big enough that it took 18 stitches to close. You can count them for yourself in the picture. It isn't painful, but I look like Dr. Frankenstein's monster. After the doctor (Dr. Berry for those who know him.) removed it, he apologized for the size of the incision. He also told me that it was big enough that he removed my gall bladder while he was at it. (The reason for the bruising is because the blob was so big that it left a cavity that allowed the blood to pool.)


Sorry if this is TMI, but there you have it.

New Furniture

Our couches that we bought when we moved into our house were getting pretty thrashed. We have been casually looking around for a while, but nothing too serious. We finally decided to look on ksl.com (local classifieds) and found some really good deals. We found a leather couch and loveseat right here in Lehi that we decided to buy. They are maroon. We moved our other couches to the basement. The only furniture we have had down there up to this point was the Foof Chair (a giant bean-bag type chiar.) Here are some pictures of the new furniture. You are all welcome to come visit us so you can see them in person.

Couch

Loveseat

Funny Pictures

We have taken a couple of funny pictures of the kids recently and thought we would share them with you. Not much more to this post than that.

I made cookies one night. Joseph wanted to lick the mixer blade. This is a picture of him licking it with his mouth wide open.

After he got done with the blade he still wanted more cookie dough (takes after his dad.) I gave him a scoop. He stuffed the whole thing in his mouth (except for the stuff left on his hands.) This picture is the result.

Mark found a little pair of kid sunglasses that he put on. They were pretty funny, but the smile makes the picture.

Ryan fell asleep in our bed one night with the big dinosaur that he got for his birthday.

Ryan's First Time Skiing

While the kids were out of school and I was off of work for Christmas, Mark wanted to go skiing. Ryan had fun sledding just after Christmas and was pretty excited at the prospect of going skiing. Mark invited a friend to ski with him and the four of us headed up to Alta Ski Resort. (Alta lets you ski for free after three o'clock on some of the easier runs. After renting skis, Mark and Michael (his friend) headed for the lifts and Ryan and I headed for the rope tows. (Editorial note: I'm not sure why they have rope tows for the beginners since they are harder to use than chair lifts.) Ryan and I worked on putting our skis on and then started skiing. At first I was trying to give him some confidence by holding him up, but quickly realized that he was relying on me too much (leaning on me rather than trusting his equipment.) I decided to turn him loose and see how he did. To my surprise he was able to ski very well on his own. He wasn't very good at stopping, but as far as the skiing went he was great! This picture was of him after one of the few times he fell. Most of the times he fell it was because I was stepping on his skiis. Notice the large ski goggles he has on. They are Mark's, but Ryan wanted to wear them. Mark wore mine and I wore sunglasses.


Ryan's First Time Skiing from Derek Lindsey on Vimeo.

The video clip is his second run on his own. He was navigating pretty well, but when he came up on a second group of people, he wasn't sure what to do. My audio commentary is pretty funny in the clip as was my filming the nearer he got to the group of people. As always, if you don't see the video on the blog, follow the link to vimeo and watch it there.